I’m Just a Person by Tig Notaro

Rating: ★★★★

I don’t frequently read memoirs or non-fiction books in general, but I do enjoy listening to podcasts. I decided I would start listening to non-fiction books on audio because it seems similar, and it’s gone well. Whenever I’ve tried listening to fiction on audio, I always miss something. But I really enjoyed listening to Tig Notaro’s memoir and was able to keep up with it. I think it’s hard to review or rate a memoir since it’s really about your own emotional connection to the work. I mean, it’s someone’s life story. How can you judge that?

In the memoir, Tig talks about the trajectory of her career and how she was becoming more famous, but I honestly didn’t know who she was before Star Trek: Discovery. Forgive me. I do think she’s incredibly funny and smart. I love her sense of humor. The memoir is full of that dry, sarcastic way about it. And the audiobook is narrated by her, which made it even better.

The subject matter is very heavy as it deals with the death of her mother and Tig’s several illnesses that occurred during and after that event. My favorite moments were when she discussed her mother because my own mother died in 2018. Tig’s relationship with her mother is different than mine, but the way she described her mother really reminded me of my own. Also, the things Tig said when she sat beside her mother in the hospital resonated with me.

Is it normal to re-read memoirs? I don’t know. I feel like I would re-read the moments regarding her mother because of how much I felt during those moments. I don’t know. It just felt very honest.

The entire memoir is honest, and I haven’t read a memoir in quite some time, but the ones I have read sometimes feel like the author is trying to create a narrative for their life. Not that it’s fake, but just polished. I’m sure things are polished here, but I connected with it in such a way and it was written in such a way that made me see Tig as a whole person with flaws, desires, struggles, setbacks, and ultimately the drive to keep going. I believe I will carry these stories with me, and perhaps return to this book at some point. I do recommend it.

Bodies of Water by V.H. Leslie

Rating: ★★

I recently decided to start reading shorter books so I could finish a story. In 2022, finishing a story was often impossible for me. I read Bodies of Water in about a month and it’s only 130 pages. I’m happy with that, and I hope I can continue to finish stories throughout the year.

This may be the first review I’ve done with spoilers. My issues with the story can only be addressed in that way. But before spoilers, let me explain the premise: Kirsten is living in present day and just moved into an apartment complex which was used as a hydrotherapy hospital in the 1870s. It’s close to the river, and Kirsten is fascinated by the water. But then strange things start happening. Every other chapter is from Kirsten’s point-of-view. The other chapters are Evelyn, who is a patient at the hydrotherapy hospital in the 1870s. In my opinion, her chapters are much more interesting with much more happening. There are more characters and action.

In general, though, the book is filled with exposition which gets very boring. The author also uses the word “water” and/or “river” in almost every single paragraph. I felt like I was getting hit over the head with something, and I just don’t know what it was. The story doesn’t connect any dots to really say anything. At the end, there are some lines about women being confined across centuries and needing the wide space of the river to, I’m not sure, have their own space?

SPOILER WARNING: After finishing the book, I realized my biggest issue is the lack of connection. There is nothing between Kirsten and Evelyn, other than Wakewater Hospital/Apartments. Kirsten’s story ends up being about satisfying the needs of female water spirits who are murderous, and for some reason water is leaking in all over Wakewater. There is no reason given for this. On Evelyn’s side, there is no mention of such water spirits until the very end, and even then they’re not murderous. Evelyn just sees them in the river. Kirsten apparently is seeing the character of Milly who was Evelyn’s lover, but why? Why is Milly out for an offering in the present day?

The more I write this, the more I am annoyed. I feel like the author wrote half the book and then didn’t know what to do. Or maybe they wrote Evelyn’s side since it was so much more interesting, and then needed something else and came up with Kirsten.

I’m giving this two stars instead of one because I really only give one star reviews to books I don’t finish. I obviously do not recommend it since it falls flat. It leaves you with questions, but not the curious kind. They’re the kind of questions that arise when a story doesn’t make sense from beginning to end.

The Wangs vs the World by Jade Chang

Rating: ★★★

I received a copy of this book in exchange for a review.

I went into this thinking it’d be a fun, silly, humorous road-trip novel, and while it hits some of those points, I felt the story was trapped between wanting to be funny and wanting to be dramatic.

Most of the story focuses on the Wangs – there’s Charles, Barbra, Saina, Andrew, and Grace. Some chapters are dedicated to one character and his/her thoughts, and others will jump around between characters. There are even two chapters that are from the car’s point-of-view, which was definitely strange. There is tension between the family members, but then the story falters because it wants to be amusing. Absurd scenarios take place throughout the novel, and I was particularly annoyed with the third and final leg. If the author had focused on one or the other – either humor or drama – the story would have been much more successful.

I did decide on a three star rating because the writing, at times, was very poetic and moving. I believe this is Chang’s debut novel, and I would definitely pick up her next book, especially if it were more subdued and didn’t strive to be humorous. Additionally, I did keep reading it! I wanted to know how it would all turn out. However, around the 70-80% mark, I was getting very frustrated and considered putting the book down. At that point, though, I figured I’d come far enough. I might as well finish it.

I don’t know if I would recommend this book to anyone, though. Like I said, it’s trapped between two worlds – the family drama and the absurd, humorous plot devices. I suppose if you interested in both of those things, you can check this one out.